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Brillia How do I cheat?
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Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2015 6:03 am Post subject: Do you guys talk to people in the real world like the way... |
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Do you guys talk in the real world like the way you talk in this forum posting messages? I'm just wondering though. are you more opening up here, or on the outside world? because me? I call CEF like a home. I could literally post really what's inside my heart here on this forum, but for some reason? in the real life ? I fail so. I don't know maybe I should probably get some more friends which I don't really have right now! wtf is life man! I mean there is a friend that I could talk to to hang and chill with but I got no money and I live in near the beach I feel like outcast man! comeon, I'm the only guy here on cef who lives in Japan and posts here!! just opening up...
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deleted19776 I post too much
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Very different. It's impossible to convey in text what you convey irl because text is only 7% of communication. The other 93% comes from nonverbal language, which means "how" you say things, not "what" you say.
For example, it's impossible to be intimidating online because you'll just sound like a frustrated nerd instead of an angry Spartan commander. You don't have the deep voice tone to back you up. Another reason why we act differently is due to anonymity. I don't give one flying fuck about political correctness here.
In real life, I'll feed people what they want to hear, such as saying "Oh, you'll be alright after graduating, stop freaking out" to liberal arts majors, which should be commonly known to have lots of problems in the job market. That way, in the small chance that they magically pull off a success story, you could have him in your network.
The things you mentioned have to do with not being anonymous and you holding accountability for what you say. As a start, just try going up to random strangers and blurting random things. But before you do that, evaluate what's actually not going to get you in trouble.
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Nirojan How do I cheat?
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br0l0ck Cheater
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| same irl.
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deleted19776 I post too much
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most people are fake as fuck. thats why they act differently with different people. |
And the reason is that we simply gain more by doing that. I feed people lies and I'm proud of it. I get my fucking way.
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Brillia How do I cheat?
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2015 1:16 am Post subject: |
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| Waxxup wrote: | Very different. It's impossible to convey in text what you convey irl because text is only 7% of communication. The other 93% comes from nonverbal language, which means "how" you say things, not "what" you say.
For example, it's impossible to be intimidating online because you'll just sound like a frustrated nerd instead of an angry Spartan commander. You don't have the deep voice tone to back you up. Another reason why we act differently is due to anonymity. I don't give one flying fuck about political correctness here.
In real life, I'll feed people what they want to hear, such as saying "Oh, you'll be alright after graduating, stop freaking out" to liberal arts majors, which should be commonly known to have lots of problems in the job market. That way, in the small chance that they magically pull off a success story, you could have him in your network.
The things you mentioned have to do with not being anonymous and you holding accountability for what you say. As a start, just try going up to random strangers and blurting random things. But before you do that, evaluate what's actually not going to get you in trouble. |
now ive learned that 7% is the communicqtion possible in txt.
maybe i should get out some more
edit: i read all your comments guys
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Nope, I don't speak to people at all. At most I snarl or hiss
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deleted19776 I post too much
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| TheIndianGuy wrote: | I never said be 100% Truthful. Thats fucking retarded. Where you got that idea from my post is beyond me. What i was saying is be yourself. Then people like you amd dislike you for the right reasons. You rather lie and have people like bullshit you feed them and not like you for who you are. You must have a ton of fake friends and still learning who you are.
It also shows insecurity. That you care to much of what others think of you. And some lack of self esteem. Maybe you should reexamine the true reasons of why you lie why youre trying to impress people and stop feeding yourself bullshit and maybe then you wont feel the need to feed it to others. Mayne youre fooling some people but i guarantee a good portion dont believe your bullshit and bite their tongue rather than speak their mind simply out of politeness. |
I don't lie to impress people. I lie to gain benefits, aka jobs during interviews. Why would I want to lie to impress average people? I don't have to lie to impress average people. Once a friend gets close enough, I feed them the truth because them benefiting means I benefit as well as I like to see a real friend succeed. We must have been on different scopes of human relationships, where you are talking about closer friends and I was talking about networking.
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Channel GannoK pffrt
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2015 3:01 pm Post subject: |
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| TheIndianGuy wrote: | | Waxxup wrote: | | TheIndianGuy wrote: | I never said be 100% Truthful. Thats fucking retarded. Where you got that idea from my post is beyond me. What i was saying is be yourself. Then people like you amd dislike you for the right reasons. You rather lie and have people like bullshit you feed them and not like you for who you are. You must have a ton of fake friends and still learning who you are.
It also shows insecurity. That you care to much of what others think of you. And some lack of self esteem. Maybe you should reexamine the true reasons of why you lie why youre trying to impress people and stop feeding yourself bullshit and maybe then you wont feel the need to feed it to others. Mayne youre fooling some people but i guarantee a good portion dont believe your bullshit and bite their tongue rather than speak their mind simply out of politeness. |
I don't lie to impress people. I lie to gain benefits, aka jobs during interviews. Why would I want to lie to impress average people? I don't have to lie to impress average people. Once a friend gets close enough, I feed them the truth because them benefiting means I benefit as well as I like to see a real friend succeed. We must have been on different scopes of human relationships, where you are talking about closer friends and I was talking about networking. |
if you have to lie to get a job thats funny. just shows you dont have much of value to offer because if you did you wouldnt have to lie to impress your employer. |
Lel, maybe you should take advice from people who aren't in a dead end point of view, at least with a grain of salt rather than not flat out say they have nothing to offer. Maybe you'd find yourself in an improved situation.
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br0l0ck Cheater
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2015 3:17 pm Post subject: |
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| Waxxup wrote: | | TheIndianGuy wrote: | I never said be 100% Truthful. Thats fucking retarded. Where you got that idea from my post is beyond me. What i was saying is be yourself. Then people like you amd dislike you for the right reasons. You rather lie and have people like bullshit you feed them and not like you for who you are. You must have a ton of fake friends and still learning who you are.
It also shows insecurity. That you care to much of what others think of you. And some lack of self esteem. Maybe you should reexamine the true reasons of why you lie why youre trying to impress people and stop feeding yourself bullshit and maybe then you wont feel the need to feed it to others. Mayne youre fooling some people but i guarantee a good portion dont believe your bullshit and bite their tongue rather than speak their mind simply out of politeness. |
I don't lie to impress people. I lie to gain benefits, aka jobs during interviews. Why would I want to lie to impress average people? I don't have to lie to impress average people. Once a friend gets close enough, I feed them the truth because them benefiting means I benefit as well as I like to see a real friend succeed. We must have been on different scopes of human relationships, where you are talking about closer friends and I was talking about networking. | you're trying so hard to sound like a sociopath, its pathetic.
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deleted19776 I post too much
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| TheIndianGuy wrote: |
if you have to lie to get a job thats funny. just shows you dont have much of value to offer because if you did you wouldnt have to lie to impress your employer. |
And where are you in life right now? LOL
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deleted19776 I post too much
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2015 8:36 pm Post subject: |
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| TheIndianGuy wrote: | | Waxxup wrote: | | TheIndianGuy wrote: |
if you have to lie to get a job thats funny. just shows you dont have much of value to offer because if you did you wouldnt have to lie to impress your employer. |
And where are you in life right now? LOL |
what does that have to do with what were talking about. i love how people always seem to use this tactic. im not saying im perfect not saying im high and mighty or better than you. just an observation. has nothing to do with where i am in life. but im actually better off than ive ever been my whole life. mentally, physically, spiritually, and financially. |
Because you would've been more ahead had you been able to let go of your manufactured morals and lie to get ahead. I'm glad ppl like you exist though, means less competition for me.
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AverageAzn247 Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2015 11:14 pm Post subject: |
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| GannoK wrote: | | TheIndianGuy wrote: | | Waxxup wrote: | | TheIndianGuy wrote: | I never said be 100% Truthful. Thats fucking retarded. Where you got that idea from my post is beyond me. What i was saying is be yourself. Then people like you amd dislike you for the right reasons. You rather lie and have people like bullshit you feed them and not like you for who you are. You must have a ton of fake friends and still learning who you are.
It also shows insecurity. That you care to much of what others think of you. And some lack of self esteem. Maybe you should reexamine the true reasons of why you lie why youre trying to impress people and stop feeding yourself bullshit and maybe then you wont feel the need to feed it to others. Mayne youre fooling some people but i guarantee a good portion dont believe your bullshit and bite their tongue rather than speak their mind simply out of politeness. |
I don't lie to impress people. I lie to gain benefits, aka jobs during interviews. Why would I want to lie to impress average people? I don't have to lie to impress average people. Once a friend gets close enough, I feed them the truth because them benefiting means I benefit as well as I like to see a real friend succeed. We must have been on different scopes of human relationships, where you are talking about closer friends and I was talking about networking. |
if you have to lie to get a job thats funny. just shows you dont have much of value to offer because if you did you wouldnt have to lie to impress your employer. |
Lel, maybe you should take advice from people who aren't in a dead end point of view, at least with a grain of salt rather than not flat out say they have nothing to offer. Maybe you'd find yourself in an improved situation. | good jobs r hard as fuck to get. Not lying or Bsing is pretty saying you don't want the job.
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AverageAzn247 Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2015 3:14 am Post subject: |
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| TheIndianGuy wrote: | yeah, i obviously meant to be brutally honest about every aspect of life.
also, landing a good job is all about networking and connections. not by applying for some job and lying about your credentials. what evidence is there to back this up? when you have an inside connection to the company; a reliable employee whose a hard worker, someone they trust, etc. that knows you personally and gives you as a good recommendation. their reputation is on the line by recommending you. they aren't going to lie and recommend someone they don't believe is actually someone that will be a good employee. they will not take that risk. they will recommend someone they KNOW would be great for the job.
but go ahead, try your way of lying to land a high paying job as some random person applying to a company with no connections then scratch your head when you don't get hired. | ummm that doesn't work for tech companies or large companies you randomly apply for at career fairs. Nothing like lying about programming raspberry pi projects to get your self in the door.
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Posted: Thu Apr 09, 2015 7:23 pm Post subject: Re: Do you guys talk to people in the real world like the wa |
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| Brillia wrote: | | Do you guys talk in the real world like the way you talk in this forum posting messages? I'm just wondering though. are you more opening up here, or on the outside world? because me? I call CEF like a home. I could literally post really what's inside my heart here on this forum, but for some reason? in the real life ? I fail so. I don't know maybe I should probably get some more friends which I don't really have right now! wtf is life man! I mean there is a friend that I could talk to to hang and chill with but I got no money and I live in near the beach I feel like outcast man! comeon, I'm the only guy here on cef who lives in Japan and posts here!! just opening up... |
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