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AhMunRa
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Not a school night you pay your own mobile then what was his problem. If he's worried about someone snatching you from the back garden because you are foreign the reality of it is, if they want you it doesn't matter if you are at a store, at home inside watching tv, at the movies or at a restaraunt. If they want you they will grab you.
About the best thing you can do is to keep in mind he is looking out for your safety and try to cope with it.
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Clannad
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At least be happy you're here. He's probably being over-protective or some shit. You don't really know the story behind people's lives.
Although saying this; I'm being a hypocrite cause I hate my parents.
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DURAN
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| Posted: Sun Aug 08, 2010 9:58 am Post subject: |
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| Put child porn in his pc call the cops watch him how he crys. everything will be better then expected.
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Geri
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| Quote: | | I can't safely walk on the street here. If I could, then I wouldn't be at home right now. I'm not about to go off at him, because he and my mum have to drive me places. |
I could tell You stories about kids who were stolen from the garden even in safer countries with better security. If You are grounded because of that, You should not complain. If they are so scared that they are driving You to everywhere just to watch over You, I bet the security is even worse like You could imagine with Your 15 year old mind. I guess they aren't taking their time to drive You everywhere because it is just fun and they don't know what to do with their time.
But if You think You are right, I guess You should take a walk in the neighborhood. Maybe someone will take You and sell Your functioning organs on the black market or make a s*x slave out of You for sick pedo's. It is a popular business there.
Most likely You don't even have any idea why are they "over-protective", I would be too if I were them.
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C-Dizzle
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| Posted: Sun Aug 08, 2010 1:25 pm Post subject: |
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| Geri wrote: | | Quote: | | I can't safely walk on the street here. If I could, then I wouldn't be at home right now. I'm not about to go off at him, because he and my mum have to drive me places. |
I could tell You stories about kids who were stolen from the garden even in safer countries with better security. If You are grounded because of that, You should not complain. If they are so scared that they are driving You to everywhere just to watch over You, I bet the security is even worse like You could imagine with Your 15 year old mind. I guess they aren't taking their time to drive You everywhere because it is just fun and they don't know what to do with their time.
But if You think You are right, I guess You should take a walk in the neighborhood. Maybe someone will take You and sell Your functioning organs on the black market or make a s*x slave out of You for sick pedo's. It is a popular business there.
Most likely You don't even have any idea why are they "over-protective", I would be too if I were them. |
Most parents are over protective, but it's probably a good thing. Even if he isnt your real father I'm guessing he still cares about you (as geri said) and although chances of you getting stolen are low there is still always the nagging feeling in the back of your parents mind of what if.
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Geri
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| Posted: Sun Aug 08, 2010 1:45 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | although chances of you getting stolen are low |
I used to work with people from that region and actually from all around the world. I have heard so weird stories and seen so much disgusting things with my own eyes, that I can understand His parents. I would be worried too. That region is somewhat the center of asian criminal's network. It is not like walking on the street in an advanced country. They would kill each other for cents.
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Btw. anyone who can read can check out what I said. PNG is by far not the safest place on Earth not to mention the child porn that You used to joke here but it is not so funny there, where it is real. It's decentralised, relatively poor and some people would even sell his/her own child for a few dollars, not to mention other peoples child.
Zelda You don't need to believe me, You can read, You have internet access, just search for it on the net. You will find out why are they worried. I won't post links about this matter here.
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AhMunRa
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If that's the case just do a google search of your specific area and include "abductions", see what gets returned. If I were stationed there are moved there for work there is no way in hell I'd move my family there. I would be so worried I'd get no work done.
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Ricardo
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| AhMunRa wrote: | Zelda_454, I hear what you are saying. I am new to this forum so you can chose whether or not to listen to what I have to say. I grew up sorta the same. My parents divorced when I was 12 and my mother married a man that would drink and hit my brother and myself. When I say hit I mean he quite literally would beat us. This went on for years. Up until the time that I grew big enough and started getting violent right back with him. This was wrong of me to do. It's was not a good solution.
I know what it can be like in that situation. If you can't talk to him about what the 2 of you can do to increase your personal liberties, you might try asking to be treated more like an adult. If you were out in the garden, what's the problem. Was it a school night? Did you fail to do an assigned chore? Was your mobile bill exceptionally high the previous month?
It could just be that some men have issues accepting offspring from a previous relationship. I'm not saying this is a fact, but in nature this is common among males.
Hang in there, it won't be bad forever.
BTW, here I am 22 years later, I moved out of my mothers more than 18 years ago, and never looked back. My relationship with my mother has eroded due to the man she chose to marry after my father. Not that she married but because it was to that prat. When I was old enough I left home. That is something you can look forward to. I guess my whole point here is that no matter what happens between you and your step father, don't ever let it come between you and your mother. |
Woah, old.
At first I was going to do a tl;dr but then this isn't random spam and wow, you're sound pretty experienced.
so you moved out at 16? badass.
Also, it isn't that easy to talk to fathers about personal liberties. I just made sure mine knew I was mature enough to set my own limits. It was that easy.
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