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whisk Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 10:59 am Post subject: [Complaining] So I don't know, help me. |
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Two of my friends don't like eachother, right? Like they fucking hate eachother. One of them (friend 1) taught his brother the art of internet abuse and overuse of the word 'fag', which I find offensive. One night, The little brother was in the party on XBL with friend 2, and was doing the usual, calling us fags, said "HAY ZACH UR A WORD, IT'S F A G G O T. YOU'RE A FAGGOT." etc, him and his brother (friend 1) were sending messages to friend 2, abusive messages. I then said exactly this: "Please, Jacob, treat others how you want to be treated, and stop being so rude.". I also told him to stop being an idiot. Friend 2 called him a fag once, after being called it 20+ times. Then the little cunt started crying and left the party, and I got in shit for it. Friend 1, one of my best friends IRL joined the party and screamed at us, then left which was kinda immature and he wouldn't listen to reason at all.
I later found out that he had lied to his mum and said that I called him gay etc, and that apparently 'I wasn't the major contributing factor, but I didn't defend him enough' when there wasn't anything to fucking defend him from.
He's now apologising at 2am, I replied to him, and he doesn't understand that the parties won't connect and I don't know what to do. He's 10 years old, sheltered and spoilt fucking rotten btw, so consider him half retarded.
WAT DO
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Slugsnack Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:01 am Post subject: |
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Honestly I read all that and I really don't see the problem. You want to appease a butthurt 10 year old kid ? WHYYYY ?!
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whisk Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:02 am Post subject: |
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Slugsnack wrote: | Honestly I read all that and I really don't see the problem. You want to appease a butthurt 10 year old kid ? WHYYYY ?! |
They're my parents friends youngest child, and my friend's little brother.
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Slugsnack Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:04 am Post subject: |
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So.. where's the problem ?
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whisk Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:05 am Post subject: |
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Slugsnack wrote: | So.. where's the problem ? |
Are you human?
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:06 am Post subject: |
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Yes but my relationships with my friends are pretty much unaffected by my relationship with their families.. Possible exception of gf. I think that's pretty normal too.
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:06 am Post subject: |
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He's a spoilled little brat.
Want him to grow up like that? Want another moron running around?
The only HUMAN thing to do would be to put his ass on the fucking line and save us all another dead braincell.
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whisk Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:09 am Post subject: |
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Slugsnack wrote: | Yes but my relationships with my friends are pretty much unaffected by my relationship with their families.. Possible exception of gf. I think that's pretty normal too. |
Cause if HE thinks I'm fucking him over, he will cry again and I will get fucked over once more.
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:09 am Post subject: |
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Could you do a tl:dr? I just got back from college, I read over that like 5 times but I'm too tired to understand it fully (And I have had some bad news which fucking sucks which so I want to help as many people as possible)
Edit - I think I understand. Why don't you just ignore him or something?
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whisk Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:10 am Post subject: |
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Dialgar wrote: | Could you do a tl:dr? I just got back from college, I read over that like 5 times but I'm too tired to understand it fully (And I have had some bad news which fucking sucks which so I want to help as many people as possible) |
The couple of posts pretty much sum it up.
Also, sup
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Slugsnack Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:11 am Post subject: |
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I don't understand. You seem to have this need of preserving some special relationship between your friend's family and yourself. Your friend is your friend, that's that. There is no need for you to be friends with his family also. Unless you hang around with retards you should be able to explain to your friend and that's that. You're acting like some schoolgirl who spilt ketchup on her skirt.
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whisk Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:14 am Post subject: |
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Slugsnack wrote: | I don't understand. You seem to have this need of preserving some special relationship between your friend's family and yourself. Your friend is your friend, that's that. There is no need for you to be friends with his family also. Unless you hang around with retards you should be able to explain to your friend and that's that. You're acting like some schoolgirl who spilt ketchup on her skirt. |
I am also friends with their family, I wouldn't know said friend if I didn't know the family. I don't go to school with him, they were just friends of my mum's. Also, this is pretty much just my complaining about how fucking stupid he is now, I just started ignoring the flurry of invites and he seems to have gone away.
@Dial, cause if I did that I would 'get in trouble for ignoring his apology', but now I've just like messaged him twice and started ignoring him.
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Slugsnack Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:15 am Post subject: |
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Tell his parents to sort their kid out. Clearly this is an underlying problem with his upbringing rather than an isolated misunderstanding. You can't go fixing everyone's shit. This kid's been fucked up for 10 years, that's not something you change in an instant.
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:16 am Post subject: |
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Kill him.
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whisk Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:17 am Post subject: |
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Slugsnack wrote: | Tell his parents to sort their kid out. Clearly this is an underlying problem with his upbringing rather than an isolated misunderstanding. You can't go fixing everyone's shit. This kid's been fucked up for 10 years, that's not something you change in an instant. |
I'm not trying to change it, I'm just accepting that his mum will realise the second he comes home when he's 30 saying mum I quit my job cause someone called me stupid. Also, I'm not the kind of person to do that.
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