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Benji
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 Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 3:59 pm Post subject: I need some help with my mother. |
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Alright, here's the story. I am currently 14½ years old. My mom treats me like I'm still 7.
I considered the idea she does it because she cares about me, but it's probably because I'm her only child that she can still 'love' and she's afraid to let me go when I'm 18. My other 3 brothers all hate her and ignore her.
I already told her I'm getting sick of it and that she should stop acting like I'm a baby but she just blandly ignored it. I can understand how it is to lose another child because I'll be going to college when I'm 18 so I won't be around the house much anymore.
Can I please get some advise on how to soften the blow or just tell her that she should stop acting like I'm 7.
TL;DR:
My mom treats me like I'm 7 and I'm getting sick of it.
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Cheetah
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You're 14, you're still a kid. Everyone thinks their parents are being unfair to them when they're that age.
If you really think she's babying you, just tell her straight out, just don't be an ass so she gets defensive.
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| coltongrundy wrote: | exactly you are 14 yrs old you are still a baby so have a coke and a smile and shut your cocksucker you little bitch and respect youre moms authority and if she still gives you problems send her to my house and i will lay some pipe in her fat ass  |
want to calm down?
When I was 14 I never remember my parents treating me like a baby. If this is something that is really bothering you then you should tell her again, BUT, say it at the right time and place, preferably in the afternoon or at night when everyone is a little sleepy and calm. She will listen to you if you actually sit down with her, ask her to focus and listen to you (you don't HAVE to say that but show it)also, body language wise show that you're serious about it.
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| Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 8:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Dalton. wrote: | | Salt wrote: | | coltongrundy wrote: | | exactly you are 14 yrs old you are still a baby so have a coke and a smile and shut your cocksucker you little bitch and respect youre moms authority and if she still gives you problems send her to my house and i will lay some pipe in her fat ass |
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Me too. |
same.
If she treats you like this, theres a chance she may want to find a way to stop you from leaving when you 18.
Try counseling from your school counseler?
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Hitman
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| Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 9:39 pm Post subject: |
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Act your age bro, if you act like a 7 year old get ready to be treated like one.
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| Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 10:37 pm Post subject: |
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i have the same problem.
stop acting like the younger child to get what you want.
its the only bad part about being youngest.
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Benji
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I'm acting like any other 14 year old person. Completely normal and not like I'm the youngest.
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| Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 10:13 am Post subject: |
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Do this for example.
Ex : Mom can i go out tonight?
Instead of doing that ^
Be like, Mom I'm going out tonight.
If she says " No ".
Storm out anyways.
It works.
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| Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 10:24 am Post subject: |
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| You're 14. It make sense, you're just too young and stubborn to realize it.
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Meh, kind of got the same prob.
My parent's wont let me dirnk alchohol, and I gotta be home at like 1 am.
Meh, I just tell my mom that Ill be home at 1 am, and I get home at 2 or 3. 
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| Lemonlime wrote: | Meh, kind of got the same prob.
My parent's wont let me dirnk alchohol, and I gotta be home at like 1 am.
Meh, I just tell my mom that Ill be home at 1 am, and I get home at 2 or 3. |
Because Alcohol is so healthy.
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| zyndr0m wrote: | | Lemonlime wrote: | Meh, kind of got the same prob.
My parent's wont let me dirnk alchohol, and I gotta be home at like 1 am.
Meh, I just tell my mom that Ill be home at 1 am, and I get home at 2 or 3. |
Because Alcohol is so healthy. |
He's a badass.
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| Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 11:42 am Post subject: |
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| zyndr0m wrote: | | Lemonlime wrote: | Meh, kind of got the same prob.
My parent's wont let me dirnk alchohol, and I gotta be home at like 1 am.
Meh, I just tell my mom that Ill be home at 1 am, and I get home at 2 or 3. |
Because Alcohol is so healthy. |
I know it's very healthy :O
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| Cheetah wrote: | You're 14, you're still a kid. Everyone thinks their parents are being unfair to them when they're that age.
If you really think she's babying you, just tell her straight out, just don't be an ass so she gets defensive. |
1) That isn't a "You rascal teenagers think you're always right! When your my age you'll understand the world!". Benji's situation makes complete sense. If a teenager thinks that they are correct in an impulsive way, just because they hate their parents and like the idea of their point of view, then they probably under your pathetic generalization. I can think about benji's dilemma from every point of view for as long as I'd like, but when parents act like that it is positively and inexcusably annoying and not a way to treat kids.
2) I suppose you didn't read very carefully, because Benji clearly explained how his mother payed no attention to his bluntly telling her his feelings on this subject.
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| love her!
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