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GG Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 4:38 am Post subject: Relationship help :S |
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**How wierd it is to post here about relationship help, im desperate**
OK, today a girl I am quite fond of, and the group I "hang out" with is close to there group (through relationships with members)
Well, she said she was bored & we should do something
Of course, being me and her being her I said "Meet me @ the swings near the child care in 20 mins"
She texted back and said she would meet me there (we live in same suburb)
I quite enjoyed her company and we talked about christmas, the new year & holidays
Now for my question: What do I do about another "meeting"? Or even a date? I want to do something with her again, and build our relationship
Should I wait till school starts again? Be cliche and invite her to movies? What?
P.S. - I have so been DREAMING that we would "hang" @ the swings
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 4:45 am Post subject: |
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Do whatever the girl wants to do. Hangout, movies, talk etc...
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GG Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 4:48 am Post subject: |
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What if she doesn't ask me?
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 4:48 am Post subject: |
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You should make the moves, if she says no then simply move on
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GG Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 5:04 am Post subject: |
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thats my question - how to "make the moves"
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 5:17 am Post subject: |
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Zelda_454 wrote: | thats my question - how to "make the moves" |
First of all watch her body language..
If she keeps watching you for a long time it could be a sign
If she keeps rubbing a piece of her clothing/body/hair it could also be a sign
If she tries to put your attention on her breasts by taking off a piece of clothing it could also be a sign
if she walks while swaying her hips like a hippo (trying to get you to look to her ass) it could also be a sign..
and *this is from my opinion*
the moves.. i like it when a guy takes charge, and isnt afraid to protect me.. you could start with asking her out.. think if fun stuff to do..and buying stuff for her, a drink/popcorn whatever and talking about things she likes.. grabbing her hand.. you should try stuff and watch her reaction if she pulls away say sorry and if she doesnt go for it (THAT DOESNT MEAN GRABBING HER TITS OR WHATEVER) and when the date is over grab her hand and kiss it gently and when its been a while just ask her if she likes you the way you like her..
This should help
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/want.htm
Hope i did good or helped or something good luck
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GG Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 5:36 am Post subject: |
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thanks...
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 5:52 am Post subject: |
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Oh my god, not another one of these topics.
*warn <3
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GG Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 6:41 am Post subject: |
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Guys, dont degrade my thread!
I read the first article but it seems to be about establishing a relationship, I just wanna increase the level of intimacy (we are already friends)
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 6:59 am Post subject: |
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increase the level of intimacy? Kiss her.
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mark_the_hacker Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 7:32 am Post subject: |
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WTF? In your first post you put, " What do I do about another "date"?". That wasn't a date, more like a hangout between two friends. If I were you I shall start asking her out to movies, going somewhere to eat, shopping, etc. Then ask the question after a movie or a walk home, "Do you want to go out/be my girlfriend?".
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Movies is a good idea.
Be casual about it. Act as though you're asking a friend out.
Basically, more "Have you seen XXX? No? Well, I was planning to go see it this weekend, you could come along then if you want to.", less "I was wondering if you would like to go to a date to the cinema this weekend."
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aerion111 wrote: | Movies is a good idea.
Be casual about it. Act as though you're asking a friend out.
Basically, more "Have you seen XXX? No? Well, I was planning to go see it this weekend, you could come along then if you want to.", less "I was wondering if you would like to go to a date to the cinema this weekend." | People still say cinema(shivvvvver)?
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google wrote: | aerion111 wrote: | Movies is a good idea.
Be casual about it. Act as though you're asking a friend out.
Basically, more "Have you seen XXX? No? Well, I was planning to go see it this weekend, you could come along then if you want to.", less "I was wondering if you would like to go to a date to the cinema this weekend." | People still say cinema(shivvvvver)? |
I learn my English from books and movies (I live in Norway after all), so I use a mixture of outdated and up-to-date words.
Apparently, "cinema" is from the first category, sorry.
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 8:25 am Post subject: |
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Retard. Cinema is correct. Theater =/= Cinema. Movies = plural of 'movie'.
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