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King Chezzmo · Cheater Reputation: 29 Joined: 10 Nov 2009 Posts: 43

Good thing I'm not weak like all of you and am incapable of feeling love.

Jake! · Posted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 5:29 pm Post subject:

That's stating the obvious.

You just don't know what a hamburger tastes like unless you've had one.

You just don't know what Beethoven's 9th symphony sounds like unless you've heard it.

You just don't know how a vagina tastes unless you've tasted it.

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Selrahc · Posted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 6:35 pm Post subject:

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HackOtaku · Posted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 10:12 pm Post subject:

Love is subtle, it's not some overpowering emotion people try to make it out to be, it's not a huge hitting thing like happiness or sadness, it's more quiet, it's the simple security of knowing there's another person there, that they'll be there for you, you have someone to go get ice cream with on a warm saturday night, you have someone you're content to spend the rest of your life with. It's not something you're going to experience right away, you won't even see it coming, it will show up on it's own, out of the blue.

Selrahc · Posted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 10:54 pm Post subject:

redslothx · Posted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 11:04 pm Post subject:

can't help but notice that a lot of you are mistaking love for infatuations.

Infatuations:
-Quick love, puppy love, etc. It's attractions that come and go. You love someone at first sight because s/he looks good. You want him or her because your body wants it immediately. It's the shiny toy that you must have and then throw away after you're bored with it. Consciously, sex doesn't have to be upfront. You can be attracted without apparent reason. It's illogical love.

Given the age of most of the people here, this is what you're used to. I'm willing to be that none of you have held a relationship for more than three years.

Love:
-This one's tricky since there are various types of it.
The most common however is unconditional love. This is the love that's expressed without reward. It's the same love thats shared between family members. You love the other person regardless of what they do to you. You may feel anger, but at the core of your emotions is still a deep sense of care for them. Couples in sexual relationships can develop this love if there is a deep sense of trust between both partners.
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If you want a good look at the types of loves, then look at the work of Robert Sternberg.

His theory of love holds that there are four types that result from the interaction of:

-Intimacy = trust and bonds created between people.
-Passion = physical attractions, lust, etc. (infatuations play a major role with this one)
-Commitment = your desire and effort to actually stay in a functional relationship.

When commitment and passion is present, what you have is Fatuous love. You're in a relationship for the sex, and that's pretty much the only thing that's keeping it going. You'll stay with the person since s/he can satisfy your sexual needs.

When passion and intimacy are present, what you have is Romantic love. Its attraction with trust, but that won't stop you from finding another person. This type of love is probably more common amongst the young adults. (early 20s). It's not always long lasting given that there's no real incentives to staying committed to one another.

When intimacy and commitment are present, then what you get is Companionate love. This one if common amongst family and people who have been married for years. Love is based on a desire to be with your partner rather than the sexual attractions. You have someone to trust and be with you. The bonds that these people share are strong, and are very difficult to break given that there's so much trust between the couples.

And finally there's Consumate love which is composed of passion, intimacy, and commitment. This is rare, and often called unrealistic, but it exists. It also one of the main reasons for divorce due to people setting their goals to reach this level of love and then failing. Consumate love is the perfect love. You have complete trust in another, you can speak and have no secrets or lies, you can be separated while knowing the other won't go off with another, and the sex is still active regardless of the problems in life. This is the ideal relationship that many seek but fail miserably because it's so difficult to achieve. In order to get it, the couple must genuinely trust each other and must put the effort to maintain the relationship in a healthy condition. I know that many people think that sex doesn't matter so much, but sex is great for the health. It's particularly healthy for a relationship too since it maintains strong physical attractions.

I'm willing to bet that few of you even understand what real commitment or intimacy is. You keep using infatuations and love as if they were interchangeable terms. None of you can probably genuinely imagine being with the same girl/guy that you have now for the rest of your life. Probably less than a handful of you can think of a future that doesn't include your school. By this i mean that few of you have probably even imagined how your relationship will be fifty years from now.

Hope this is read. It clears up a lot of definitions of love.

Shota · Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 11:45 pm Post subject:

Thank god for being a weeaboo