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1929394839292057839194958 Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:21 pm Post subject: |
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| TheIndianGuy wrote: | | konr wrote: | | If someone wanted to kill themself they would. You either do or you don't. If she truly wanted to commit suicide she'd have done it by now. |
how are you so certain? what if she cared about her family just as much as she wanted to die? maybe because you don't have a family you created or as much responsibility you don't understand. she knows what happens if she dies. what if she is a single mother, she is supporting her child or children. she can't just leave them alone. she has an obligation. | The thinking about her family part would make her not want to die for the sake of her kids. She doesn't want to die.
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| Sorrow wrote: | | Lange Frans. wrote: | | People who say they're going to commit suicide wont. | I fucking hate you with every single possible fragment of my body that I could. My mom is nearly the same case as OP, and she's got real fucking close; not just saying bullshit, in the hospital, dying. Go fuck yourself you ungrateful piece of shit. I hope your fucking family dies. | lol mad
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1929394839292057839194958 Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:25 pm Post subject: |
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| Sorrow wrote: | | Lange Frans. wrote: | | People who say they're going to commit suicide wont. | I fucking hate you with every single possible fragment of my body that I could. My mom is nearly the same case as OP, and she's got real fucking close; not just saying bullshit, in the hospital, dying. Go fuck yourself you ungrateful piece of shit. I hope your fucking family dies. | If she was in the hospital then she clearly tried to do it rather than whining about it and saying she would. Shut up kid.
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:33 pm Post subject: |
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| She says that if it weren't for us thinking that it was our fault, she would have shot herself a long time ago.
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:35 pm Post subject: |
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| kill her yourself.
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1929394839292057839194958 Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:51 pm Post subject: |
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| TheIndianGuy wrote: | | konr wrote: | | TheIndianGuy wrote: | | konr wrote: | | If someone wanted to kill themself they would. You either do or you don't. If she truly wanted to commit suicide she'd have done it by now. |
how are you so certain? what if she cared about her family just as much as she wanted to die? maybe because you don't have a family you created or as much responsibility you don't understand. she knows what happens if she dies. what if she is a single mother, she is supporting her child or children. she can't just leave them alone. she has an obligation. | The thinking about her family part would make her not want to die for the sake of her kids. She doesn't want to die. |
she has reasons that make her want to die and reasons that make her not want to die though going through her mind at the same time.
because i want to eat pizza for lunch and i have pizza in my house as an option but i choose not to eat the pizza means i don't want pizza? | Unless she's picked up the gun, put it to her head and then realised it was selfish, then she doesn't want to kill herself.
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1929394839292057839194958 Grandmaster Cheater Supreme
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 8:17 pm Post subject: |
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| TheIndianGuy wrote: | | konr wrote: | | TheIndianGuy wrote: | | konr wrote: | | TheIndianGuy wrote: | | konr wrote: | | If someone wanted to kill themself they would. You either do or you don't. If she truly wanted to commit suicide she'd have done it by now. |
how are you so certain? what if she cared about her family just as much as she wanted to die? maybe because you don't have a family you created or as much responsibility you don't understand. she knows what happens if she dies. what if she is a single mother, she is supporting her child or children. she can't just leave them alone. she has an obligation. | The thinking about her family part would make her not want to die for the sake of her kids. She doesn't want to die. |
she has reasons that make her want to die and reasons that make her not want to die though going through her mind at the same time.
because i want to eat pizza for lunch and i have pizza in my house as an option but i choose not to eat the pizza means i don't want pizza? | Unless she's picked up the gun, put it to her head and then realised it was selfish, then she doesn't want to kill herself. |
i don't see your point. couldn't see come to that realization without putting a gun to her head?
you're just saying if she doesn't kill herself or try to kill herself she doesn't' want to die but you're not explaining your rational for this. try rephrasing or explaining so i understand why you think this way. | I want to eat a burger with all my heart
I have a burger
I'm not going to eat this burger because of my health
She might be thinkin' about it in a way, but if you want to do something and are capable, you do it.
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 8:39 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm sorry OP, but all I got from your initial post, is that you have an eighteen year old sister. And now that we've established that, I think you owe us all some pictures of her.
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 8:42 pm Post subject: |
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| Augustine wrote: | | I'm sorry OP, but all I got from your initial post, is that you have an eighteen year old sister. And now that we've established that, I think you owe us all some pictures of her. |
OH ANI
U SO CRAZY
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Saya Master Cheater
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 9:14 pm Post subject: |
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| Shoot her, then yourself.
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 9:18 pm Post subject: |
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| Go find some lsd and have her take it! A good psychedelic trip puts my life into perspective every time!
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the the the Master Cheater
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 9:51 pm Post subject: |
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Really dude. Acid is only like $10 a drop.
Why haven't you done this already
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 10:32 pm Post subject: |
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Suicide is definitely selfish.
Make her feel bad about wanting to kill herself, make her remember what she forgot before even thinking about killing herself.
Make her remember that she has you, your sister, if you have a father, her husband. If it's money problems, move into a smaller place, if it's love problems, go kill the guy that broke her heart.
If it's due to the dog passing away, get a new one.
Little things that mend the whole picture.
You just have to think outside the box.
I can only give you advice, but it's on your shoulders to find out the problem and use the solution to an advantage for your mom.
If that doesn't work, I suggest professional help.
You don't want to go through life without your mom.
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