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Vincent.
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| Wania wrote: | | Lange Frans. wrote: | | Wania wrote: | | Augustine wrote: | | Lange Frans. wrote: | | Of course, I already told you this once, he comes home every day and when he's home, he needs to cook for you, that's weird. |
I didn't know that. That is pretty weird. Dividing the work done evenly is key to avoid irritation in any relationship. I would feel screwed if I came home, saw my girl/fiancé/wife after her whole day of staying at home, and she told me I still needed to do the groceries, cook, and clean. At that point you're just using someone. |
I know. I have been a dumb fuck.
I'm so mad I didn't realize this sooner.
People told me, I didn't listen. I was blind, I kept thinking he would always want me, no matter what.
And that he would always be here for me.
It's ridiculous, and I hope I still have a chance.
I love him so much, I'm willing to work my ass off for this to work. And I'm gonna let him know that.
I actually already cleaned the room. SO he can see I'm already trying. |
And cleaning helps you to get your mind off bad things doesn't it? |
Yeah, I'm also getting drunk, in case he rejects me.
But only drunk enough that I can actually get shitfaced if he rejects me, and if he says yes. then celebration drunk! |
Not a good thing, using alcohol and then expressing your feelings, oooh my god..
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Wania
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 2:23 pm Post subject: |
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| Lange Frans. wrote: | | Wania wrote: | | Lange Frans. wrote: | | Wania wrote: | | Augustine wrote: | | Lange Frans. wrote: | | Of course, I already told you this once, he comes home every day and when he's home, he needs to cook for you, that's weird. |
I didn't know that. That is pretty weird. Dividing the work done evenly is key to avoid irritation in any relationship. I would feel screwed if I came home, saw my girl/fiancé/wife after her whole day of staying at home, and she told me I still needed to do the groceries, cook, and clean. At that point you're just using someone. |
I know. I have been a dumb fuck.
I'm so mad I didn't realize this sooner.
People told me, I didn't listen. I was blind, I kept thinking he would always want me, no matter what.
And that he would always be here for me.
It's ridiculous, and I hope I still have a chance.
I love him so much, I'm willing to work my ass off for this to work. And I'm gonna let him know that.
I actually already cleaned the room. SO he can see I'm already trying. |
And cleaning helps you to get your mind off bad things doesn't it? |
Yeah, I'm also getting drunk, in case he rejects me.
But only drunk enough that I can actually get shitfaced if he rejects me, and if he says yes. then celebration drunk! |
Not a good thing, using alcohol and then expressing your feelings, oooh my god.. |
I got my sober feelings written down for him to read.
It's a thing we do, we tend to confuse each other and make each other forget what we were going to say.
So writing it down for him to read ensures I wont miss anything I need him to know.
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Desolati0n
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 3:56 pm Post subject: |
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| Dialgar wrote: | | Don't make any more attempts after this one. And don't change too much. It may hurt like hell but it's honestly better to be yourself than with someone who doesn't love you for you (even if it may not feel that way at the time) |
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gogodr
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:07 pm Post subject: |
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| Dialgar wrote: | | Don't make any more attempts after this one. And don't change too much. It may hurt like hell but it's honestly better to be yourself than with someone who doesn't love you for you (even if it may not feel that way at the time) |
thats actually some pretty good advice.
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meme'd
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:08 pm Post subject: |
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| gogodr wrote: | | Dialgar wrote: | | Don't make any more attempts after this one. And don't change too much. It may hurt like hell but it's honestly better to be yourself than with someone who doesn't love you for you (even if it may not feel that way at the time) |
thats actually some pretty good advice. |
Indeed.
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Aniblaze
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:17 pm Post subject: |
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| Brotha Bancho wrote: | | gogodr wrote: | | Dialgar wrote: | | Don't make any more attempts after this one. And don't change too much. It may hurt like hell but it's honestly better to be yourself than with someone who doesn't love you for you (even if it may not feel that way at the time) |
thats actually some pretty good advice. |
Indeed. |
It's not, though. Realistically speaking.
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Up2Admin
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:22 pm Post subject: |
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Wania, I'm not getting back together with you. I'm looking for someone that doesn't have strange health problems, someone that I can have sex with without worrying about blood spewing all over my wiener.
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gogodr
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Augustine wrote: | | Brotha Bancho wrote: | | gogodr wrote: | | Dialgar wrote: | | Don't make any more attempts after this one. And don't change too much. It may hurt like hell but it's honestly better to be yourself than with someone who doesn't love you for you (even if it may not feel that way at the time) |
thats actually some pretty good advice. |
Indeed. |
It's not, though. Realistically speaking. |
explain yourself
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Wania
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:36 pm Post subject: |
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| He does not want me.
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Desolati0n
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:37 pm Post subject: |
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| Wania wrote: | | He does not want me. |
Your ex?
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Wania
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Desolati0n wrote: | | Wania wrote: | | He does not want me. |
Your ex? |
Yep. I failed.
But it wasn't because of me.
He is still just a boy, playing with his toys, trying to grow up.
And he found a better toy, so I'm no longer needed.
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whisk
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Wania wrote: | | He does not want me. |
That sucks :<
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Vincent.
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Wania wrote: | | Desolati0n wrote: | | Wania wrote: | | He does not want me. |
Your ex? |
Yep. I failed.
But it wasn't because of me.
He is still just a boy, playing with his toys, trying to grow up.
And he found a better toy, so I'm no longer needed. |
A toy that has a job and cooks?
Oh well, time to move on, search for a job yourself, leave his place as soon as you can, live with your parents if possible, just another closed chapter of the book, now grow stronger
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Desolati0n
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| Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 5:04 pm Post subject: |
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This is just the begining of your life!
Just tell yourself he was holding you back from your true potential!
Your life may get a little emptier but that just means that you need to stay busy and move on 
Life doesnt get any easier so you might as well get stronger >:O
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